If you are unsure whether some of your behaviors are abusive, try taking the following quiz.   1. Tell your partner who they can talk to or hang out with? YES NO 2. Call your partner names, criticize them, or embarrass them in front of others? YES No 3. Force your partner into doing something they don't want to do? YES NO 4. Make your partner feel guilty if they don't do what you want them to do YES NO 5. Interfere with your partners work, or school work? YES NO 6. Prevent your partner from seeing their friends and family? YES NO 7. Follow your partner when they are not with you? YES NO 8. Are overly jealous? YES NO 9. Check up on your partner a lot: listen in on their phone calls, frequently ask where they have been, call frequently to check up on them, or check the mileage on their car. YES NO 10. Blame your partner for everything YES NO 11. Say that your partner's concerns and fears are not real or not important. YES NO 12.Prevent your partner from leaving by blocking the doorway or holding on to them? YES NO 13.Push, hit, or shove your partner YES NO 14.Have an explosive temper? YES NO 15.Threaten to hurt or kill yourself if your partner leaves you? YES NO 16.Force your partner to have sex when they don't really want to? YES NO 17.Damage or destroy your partner's possessions YES NO 18.Threaten to harm partner, their family, friends or pets YES NO 19.Damage home, throw YES NO 20.Do things that make your partner seem scared? YES NO 21.Force your partner to use drugs including alcohol YES NO 22.Threaten to expose partner's "secrets" YES NO 23.Force your partner to use drugs including alcohol YES NO 24.Threaten partner if they should tell anyone about the abuse YES NO 25.Insist that they are flirting or are involved with someone else even though they deny it YES NO

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